I Came
Anyway
A memoir by Alisha Waterman
A story about the act of courage — choosing to leave, choosing to stay, and choosing yourself. About arriving in a new country and spending fifteen years quietly shrinking to fit in, until the day you realise every single compromise was self-imposed.
About the piece
When Alisha was five years old she had a dream. She was standing high up in a tall building, looking out over a city she did not recognise. She woke up certain of one thing: she was not going to spend her life in London.
In 2007, with a backpack and a one-way feeling she kept quietly to herself, she got on a plane to Australia. People told her it was brave. It did not feel brave. For the first time in her life, she was doing something entirely and only for herself.
"I heard them. And I came anyway."
What followed were nine months of falling in love with a country, twelve frantic weeks of job applications in Sydney, and then — four days before her visa expired — three job offers and a decision that changed everything.
But arriving in a place is not the same as belonging to it. Over the years that followed, Alisha found herself quietly bending to fit corporate spaces where she was often the only Black woman in the room. The adjustments were small and unconscious at first. The hair. The suits. The opinions kept carefully offline. Until one day something cracked.
I Came Anyway is a story about the moment you realise the cage you have been living in was never locked. It is about the slow, courageous work of fitting out instead of fitting in, and what becomes possible when you finally stop asking for permission to take up space.
Alisha Waterman is a Women's Transformational Coach working with NLP, Hypnosis and Emotional Change Technique to help women reconnect with who they were always meant to be.
Originally from London, she arrived in Australia in 2007 with a backpack and never went home. She has spent nearly two decades building a life and an identity in Sydney, navigating corporate spaces as a Black woman at a time when few others were in the room.
She once lived in a glass-topped pyramid on Lake Atitlán in Guatemala, where she studied mysticism. This is her first anthology contribution.
Alisha
Waterman
Women's Transformational Coach
NLP Practitioner
Hypnosis & Emotional Change Technique
Host, The Flourishing Life Project
Founder, Aligned & Activated
Based in Sydney, Australia
Anthologia
Issue 3
Anthologia is a collection of stories for every woman, curated by Natasha Gilmour and Daniella Libri Elias and published by The Kind Press.
Issue 3 brings together a remarkable group of women writers exploring the experiences, turning points, and truths that shape a life. I Came Anyway is Alisha's contribution to this collection.
A book to read, to share, and to give to the women in your life who are finding their own way home.
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Anthologia Issue 3 launches in December 2026. Pre-order your copy now and be among the first to read I Came Anyway alongside an extraordinary collection of women's stories.
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