The Agony and the Ecstasy

To say that yoga teacher training is intensive really doesn’t scrape the surface of the reality of 3 months dedicated to learning what it is to come home to yourself.

The physicality that the body goes through spending between 3 – 6hrs a day learning and understanding the asanas by all means is just astounding. And to awake on a Sunday morning being barely able to sit up in bed or walk to the bathroom with every minute muscle aching and reminding you that it is there, you’ve ignored me and yes I’m going to tell you with every step you take today that I am here and I am alive!

Somehow I manage to get showered, dressed and start the journey to class in the knowledge I have another full day of yoga to face, with my body constantly reaffirming I am here, I am alive and I am awake.

At week three I am grateful for the pain of the first few weeks because this is where the hard part begins. Your body is now happily leaning into the poses and the physical aspect although not necessarily easier is now at least familiar and the strain is less immense and more of a subtle vibration in the background.

This is where the truth begins, the tale that you have told yourself for so many years starts to unravel and the struggle between my ego, the truth and my mat starts…

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I coach women (and businesses) how to value themselves and their female talent. I guide women through a process of releasing limiting beliefs, building their personal wealth and how to navigate the parental transition journey to create a truly flourishing life.

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I’m writing this from Bali, somewhere between a freshly squeezed juice, a pool and a wedding.

And something has already shifted. It always does when I genuinely stop.

I want to share what came up. Not because it’s unique to Bali. Because I think it’s available to all of us, if we let it be.

The Last Time I Was Here

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Both halves were exactly right for who I was then.

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Returning to a place at a different point in your life has a way of showing you who you’ve stayed.

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When you step away from the noise long enough, things become clear that were impossible to see up close.

For me this trip it was this: I’d let the pace creep back in. Gradually, quietly, the way it always does. The early mornings on the phone. The evenings half-present. The low-level hum of tasks that never quite switched off.

Nothing dramatic. Just the slow drift back toward a version of myself I’d worked hard to move away from.

Bali reminded me of the difference between functioning and flourishing. I’d been functioning beautifully. I hadn’t been flourishing.

That’s useful information. And I wouldn’t have had access to it without stopping long enough to hear it.

What I’m Taking Home

A renewed commitment to the structures I know work for me.

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I’m coming home with something brewing.

Reset & Rise is on 24 July. It’s a 90-minute online masterclass for women who know something needs to change but aren’t quite sure where to start.

We work through what’s keeping you stuck, what needs to shift, and what the next real step looks like. It’s practical, personal, and it works.

Details dropping very soon. If you want to be first to know, book a Discovery Call and I’ll make sure you hear about it before anyone else.

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The question isn’t whether you can afford to rest. It’s whether you can afford not to.

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